30 April 2021
A Tale of Four Beliefs
29 April 2021
Preaching to the Converted
27 April 2021
Grief and God's Grace
"Suicides usually leave conversations unfinished, with many loose ends. But ultimate closure is an unrealistic expectation. We can close on a house, but we can't close on a person's life. To put the past behind us and lock it up into a little box dishonors the memory of our loved one; it says that we are trying to pretend that this didn't happen. No, instead we acknowledge what happened, and that it was tragic; we acknowledge that it has changed our lives forever. We live on as changed people who look at life and death differently now.
Eventually we come to the point of realizing that though we may always grieve, we no longer do so continually or consciously. In some ways grief will go on forever. In other ways it does come to some end points. After his wife's death, C. S. Lewis wrote A Grief Observed in a series of four notebooks. He decided that he would not buy any new notebooks after the fourth one. He said, "I thought I could describe a state, make a map of sorrow. Sorrow, however, turns out to be not a state but a process. It needs not a map but a history, and if I don't stop writing that history at some quite arbitrary point, there's no reason why I should ever stop. There is something new to be chronicled every day..."
Healing doesn't mean that we are ever completely "recovered." We are never fully "healed." The human body is never in a state of perfect health; it is constantly in flux, with some cells dying while others are growing. Every day we experience minuscule injuries and abrasions, and if our bodies are healthy, they are always in the process of healing. It is better to speak of experiencing healing as an ongoing process than to pretend we have been healed and have arrived at a final destination...We are never completely healed. After all, we still carry the scars. But grief that has done its work in us will help us experience God's grace more fully." (Hsu, Albert. Grieving a Suicide: a Loved Ones Search for Comfort, Answers and Hope. Inter-Varsity Press, 2017. pages 157-159.)
To all who have experienced grief and painful loss, may you also experience the comfort and hope found only in Jesus Christ who will never leave or forsake us. God knows what it is like to lose what is most precious when He gave His only begotten Son for us on Calvary. God has suffered for us in the person of Jesus Christ so we could receive comfort, and by faith we can cast our cares upon Him because He cares for us today and always.
26 April 2021
Lift Your Eyes to Heaven
22 April 2021
The Same Isn't Equal
20 April 2021
When We Go Wrong
19 April 2021
Together for the Better
18 April 2021
Having Entered the Holiest
15 April 2021
Running Well
14 April 2021
Email Update!
Hello to all those who are using the automated email to receive updates from the blog! I have been notified the Feedburner gadget I have been using will be discontinued in June and therefore blog posts will not be sent anymore. I apologise for this...I have looked into setting up an automated service like Mailchimp but it is simply too much for me to navigate. The content isn't the issue but figuring how to send out emails without causing confusion. If you know me and have skill in the area please send me a message...otherwise to receive the content you will have to check the blog itself when Feedburner goes away. :)