The Pacifier Lesson

When one of my sons was young, he developed quite a dependance upon a pacifier (dummy) that continued after he was weaned.  At one time there was a pacifier in each corner of the cot, at the changing table, in the pram, and pretty much every room in the house, and he used them constantly.  My wife came up with a solution that worked brilliantly:  she cut the tips off of every one she found with scissors.  If my son scrounged up one she didn't know about, she altered it as well.  I remember him putting an altered pacifier in his mouth, and he immediately pulled it out and threw it to the floor in disgust.  The unfamiliar feeling was clearly unpleasant, the smooth surface replaced with rough edges and the nipple easily collapsed without an air pocket.  In literally a day the reliance upon the "binky" had been broken--first with my wife's wisdom and then with my son's agreement.  Because it was my son's choice, all was accomplished without a power struggle.

Reminiscing about this situation led me to consider how God at times does a similar thing with His beloved children like my wife did with our son.  When we are born again by faith in Jesus, we often retain habits, tendencies and even addictions that can be harmful and destructive.  We likely will continue to pick some additional ones up during our pilgrimage through this life.  These may be sins in themselves but could also be ways of thinking about others, how we cope with stress, tendencies to vanity, flirt, rude humour, embrace excess, shows we watch or games we play.  God does what my wife could not do with my son:  she physically changed the pacifier to lead him to reject it, yet God is able to change us spiritually from within.  The LORD transforms our outlook upon the thing we love and enjoy so we realise how sinful and destructive it is, and with the freedom provided us in Christ are enabled to deny ourselves and do what pleases God instead.  Jesus breaks our chains, and by the power of the Holy Spirit we can choose to walk in victory over what previously held us captive.

The process of us learning how to keep our vessels in purity, setting our minds on things above and turning our eyes to Jesus to consider Him is a lifelong journey.  Ridding a child of a pacifier is a way easier task than learning not to look with lust, avoiding covetousness and learning contentment in every situation of life.  The power of God to redeem and sanctify us makes it possible for the person most set in their ways to be changed to live God's way, for we can do all things through Christ Who strengthens us.  In some regards the example of my son rejecting all his pacifiers in a day and never using them again puts me to shame, for I have at times been like the fool who returns to his folly as a dog returns to its vomit or a pig to wallowing in the mud--and didn't even realise it.  The LORD is faithful to seek out His sheep that wander or fall, and all heaven rejoices when one of us sinners repents.  If there is a power struggle, it is evidence we have yet to surrender our will to the LORD.

Praise the LORD He transforms us to agree with Him, to repent and return to Him as at the first!  It is good to realise our distaste and rejection of what we previously enjoyed and looked forward to is a gift from God, and it is by His power alone we can continue to walk in newness of life.  Our old life, habits and ways losing appeal is evidence we have been and are being changed to be more like Jesus.  There are very few adults who still use a pacifier in public, yet other immature habits and tendencies are retained by all of us we are wise to be rid of so we can walk righteously.  Our new life is not defined by what we no longer do, but by who Jesus Christ is and all He has created us to be.  How good it is to willingly yield to the wisdom of God to do His will, for the future of those people is peace.