God's Free Forgiveness

"Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?" ²² Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven."

Matthew 18:21-22

Peter thought his offer of forgiving a brother up to seven times was generous, but the response of Jesus revealed how feeble the goodwill, grace and patience of man is in comparison with God.  Jesus was not saying people are to limit their forgiveness to those who sin against them to 490 times.  His point was we are to forgive and keep forgiving beyond keeping track.  Our forgiveness is not to be limited to our friends or family and ought to be multiplied, extended to our enemies as well.  Since we have been forgiven by God more times than we can count, we are to remained inclined to forgive others as God has freely forgiven us.

Forgiveness of those who wrong us, believe it or not, is an often overlooked step of faith in God He commands we take as followers of Jesus.  Those who refuse to forgive a brother can justify nursing a grudge for many reasons.  They may point to the severity of the offence, the pain we suffered, the fact the sin was repeated multiple times, that the offender really wasn't sorry, or out of fear their sin will continue because they have not changed.  Unless we embrace forgiveness as an act of obedience by faith in God who has freely forgiven us, we cannot forgive as we ought.  We will continue to demand others pay an arbitrary price (one we determine) to convey to our satisfaction until they realise the pain they have caused, and even when they have done so it may not be enough to satisfy our contempt.  Without forgiveness and complete, free release from wrongdoing, there will aways be more to pay.

The refusal to forgive as God forgives us is a reason why some reconciliation attempts between people fall flat.  No amount of meeting present demands can undo the wrongs of the past, and both parties must agree to lay aside their justifications for holding a grudge.  Jesus went on to share a parable with Peter and His hearers that illustrated how someone who intensely recongises their personal need for forgiveness in light of their guilt can remain adamantly opposed to forgiving others in the most trivial matters.  The Christian who refuses to forgive is in perpetual bondage to wrongs suffered, a victim of their own bitterness, pride and disobedience.  Those who sin face eternity in hell, and those who refuse to forgive are presently trapped in a hell of their own making.  This need not be the case, for Jesus came to set such prisoners free.

God's inclination to forgive repentant sinners is seen in 1 John 1:9:  "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."  We are to forgive because we have been freely forgiven by God when we confessed and repented of our sins, the God Who also commands us to forgive others.  Jesus did not forgive us our sins motivated in this manner, nor was He simply following a command:  we have been forgiven by God's grace.  It is by confessing our sin and repenting we can receive forgiveness by faith.  Jesus voluntarily lay down His life on Calvary to satisfy the justice of God to provide atonement for all who have sinned against God in every possible way.  God said to His people in Isaiah 43:25:  "I, even I, am He who blots out your transgressions for My own sake; and I will not remember your sins."  God does not stick our nose into our sins He has forgiven like some might a dog in his mess, for He chooses to remember our sin no more for His own sake.

Knowing we are guilty as sin and deserving of wrath, now having been forgiven of all guilt and transgression before our gracious LORD, we are guided and helped to freely forgive others--without self-righteously keeping tabs on how forgiving we are.  When it comes to forgiveness, we naturally resemble slavers who have people in their employ who are always working to pay off a debt that gains interest faster than it can be paid off.   The strings attached to our forgiveness tangle us and others with bitterness, rage and malice from which we can never be free.  The Bible teaches the free forgiveness of God did not originate in us, but it is a gift of God we receive and is to be freely shared with others.