A Lonely, Broken Heart

"Owner of a Lonely Heart" was a number one song in 1984, the most popular song by the progressive rock band Yes.  When I was in high school, the song was played occasionally on the local classic rock radio station.  It has a catchy chorus, and catchy songs are usually among the more popular ones.  It is amazing that I have not heard this song played for a very long time, yet it was ringing in my ears clearly for no obvious reason this morning.  It occurred to me that the reason I was reminded of the chorus of this song was to ponder the question:  is the message true?

Overall the song smacks very much of self-help books that focus on your responsibility to take charge of your life to improve it--to take your chances by making a move.  The basic message of the chorus goes, "Owner of a lonely heart (much better than a) owner of a broken heart."  From a biblical perspective, there is no need to be lonely when we have the LORD who will never leave or forsake us.  Having been born again by faith in Jesus, He adopts us as His own children and makes us members of His body, the church.  While He connects us with a global community that meets in small groups everywhere, people cannot satisfy our need for belonging and love like He does.

Jesus said those who hunger and thirst after righteousness are blessed because they will be filled.  In a similar way it can be said blessed are the broken hearted because they have the sure hope of healing by faith in Jesus Christ.  God is attracted to the owners of broken hearts as it is written in Psalm 34:18:  "The LORD is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit."  I suspect the broken heart referenced by the band may be more hurt than humbled, yet pain has a way of humbling us as well where we realise we need help.  Jesus fulfilled the words He read in Isaiah 61:1:  "The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon Me, because the LORD has anointed Me to preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound..."  Blessed are the brokenhearted, for Jesus has been sent to heal them.

Feelings of loneliness are good when they result in us seeking the LORD, and blessed is the the owner of a broken heart because it prompts them to find healing and rest by faith in Jesus.  There are many Christians who struggle with loneliness and broken hearts even after coming to Christ.  This does not bring salvation into doubt, but God would have us learn what Jesus understood and taught in John 8:29:  "And He who sent Me is with Me. The Father has not left Me alone, for I always do those things that please Him."  Jesus had fellowship with the Father He obeyed, and the same is true for Christ's followers.  Jesus had many disciples and followers, but Jesus did not rely upon them for love and companionship He enjoyed with God the Father.  Despite betrayal and being abandoned, Jesus was not lonely or brokenhearted as John 16:32 says:  "Indeed the hour is coming, yes, has now come, that you will be scattered, each to his own, and will leave Me alone. And yet I am not alone, because the Father is with Me."

I have heard it said "It is lonely at the top," but this does not take Jesus Christ or His doctrine into account.  No one is higher than Jesus, yet He humbled Himself beneath all others to suffer and die on the cross.  As a man Jesus humbled Himself before God and mankind, and when He was left alone He was never alone.  The one who is proud will be lonely, because the proud do not have fellowship with God.  It is the one with a contrite, humble heart the LORD draws near to and heals, and our hearts are warmed knowing we are never alone--because God is with us.