Hearing and Pleasing God

"Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord."

Colossians 3:20

After Jesus explained the Parable of the Sower to His disciples, He warned them:  "Take heed therefore how you hear." (Luke 8:18)  Though all in the parable heard the Word of God, only those who received the Word and put it into practice were fruitful.  The hearts represented by the footpath, rocky soil, and thorny ground all heard the same words but they were prevented from having the intended effect.  Only with humble and repentant hearts can we receive God's truth and walk in obedience.

Recently the worship team at our church has played Chris Tomlin's song "Good Good Father."  It is a sweet song which I know ministers to people who need a reminder that God is a good Father to those born again through faith in Jesus Christ.  Not all people have had a loving, close relationship with their biological dads.  It is comforting to know God loves us despite our sins and the offer of His unfailing love is not dependent upon our performance.  Yet we have a responsibility to abide in God's love, and we do this through keeping His commands (John 15:10).  If we only hear what is being said without comprehending the implications, we will never receive or experience all the joy, peace, and comfort on offer by God.

There is one line of the song which reminds me of the importance to take heed how I hear.  In the song it speaks of hearing a tender whisper of love in the night and then comes the phrase:  "you tell me that you're pleased and that I'm never alone."  Be careful how you hear!  These are true biblical statements when understood in their proper context.  Nothing can separate me from the love of God, but should I choose a path of disobedience I cannot walk in His love.  It does not please God when His children embrace sin.  Jesus says He will never leave or forsake me, but that does not mean I cannot willfully depart from the presence of God or grieve His Spirit.  I do not believe it was the intent of the songwriter to offer comfort to people who are far from God, but if not heard correctly it only offers false hope.

As Colossians 3:20 says, there are things we can do which are pleasing to God.  This suggests we can also do things which are not pleasing to God.  For those who are in doubt, the Bible plainly states this.  The writer of Hebrews quoted from Habakkuk 2:3-4 in Hebrews 10:38:  "Now the just shall live by faith; but if anyone draws back, My soul has no pleasure in him."   It is not just the apostate or unregenerate who do not please God, but those who live according the flesh.  Romans 8:8 says, "So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God."  Though Christians have the Holy Spirit, we live in a body of flesh and can walk according to the flesh.  That is one reason why we sin.  Should we walk in the flesh or unbelief as Christians, it is not pleasing to God.  God still loves us and we are His children even when we make mistakes, but He is certainly not pleased with us when we choose sin.

When the prodigal son demanded his inheritance from his father in the parable, he took his money and spent it on himself.  All that time whilst he was living "high on the hog" he remained his father's son and was loved by him.  Yet he separated himself from his father and thus his love.  He ended up destitute and his only companions were pigs he fed.  Do you think it pleased his father when his son took his money and ran away to satisfy his lusts?  No!  But do you think the father was pleased when his son returned home?  Absolutely!  He rushed to embrace his son, lavished him with gifts, and gladly received him back into his home with celebration.  It was not the "tender whisper of love in the night" which caused the son to return home, but the realisation he had been a great fool in going his own way.  He was humbled, brought to repentance, and was able to receive his father's love, even as people must repent and come to God in faith to receive His love.  How sad it would be for a person living in sin to be comforted in his disobedience that God unconditionally takes pleasure in him and justify his departure from God!  Take heed how you hear!

Let us do the things which are well-pleasing in God's sight.  Love and pleasure are not the same thing.  Psalm 147:11 says, "The LORD takes pleasure in those who fear Him, in those who hope in His mercy."  This word "pleasure" in the Strong's Concordance means, "to be pleased with, satisfy, and accept."  God is a good, good Father to His children, and we ought to ensure we are good children in whom He is well-pleased.