For many people, happiness and joy is always out of reach. We hope changed circumstances in the future will make things better, but quite often when we arrive at our destination we face another set of problems. Like a man looking for an oasis we stumble from mirage to mirage, exhausted and increasingly disillusioned. We swallow our fantasies and grow sick when they never deliver what they promised us. Man looks for relief, rest, contentment, fulfillment, and satisfaction, and yet to reach for them is grasping for the wind.
When I worked at a church in the United States, people would often come off the street asking for something. People would ask for food, money for petrol, bus tokens, to use the phone, for a lift, to leave their car in our carpark overnight, for counselling, anything. I remember one man in particular who asked for money to fix the transmission on his van. During my initial conversation with him, it seemed like his broken transmission was the only thing which concerned him. If only he had his transmission fixed, his life would be fixed to. I came to find out the reason why the transmission was so important was because this individual was living in his van. There were a lot of broken things in the man's life; the transmission happened to be his biggest priority at the moment. When it was fixed, something immediately sprang up to fill the void.
We are all the same. When the poisonous "If only..." thinking takes hold on our thinking, be warned. "If only I was out of this relationship..." "If only I had this better job..." "If only people respected me..." "If only I could have a decent holiday..." "If only" thinking never ends and is never satisfied! It is reasonable for us to take note of physical pain and treat it medically, even as it is wise to maintain our vehicles so they are able to safely transport us. But unless we learn to be content in God in our current situation - despite our pain or difficulties - we will not be content even when our dreams come true. There will be something else waiting to rob you of your joy and contentment. It is only when we recognise Jesus Christ and a relationship with Him is our only means of being made whole that we can experience true joy and peace which cannot be taken from us.
This truth is illustrated when a blind man called out to Jesus as He came to Jericho. Jesus stopped and bid the man be called to him. The man rushed over to Jesus, and Jesus asked him what he desired. The man said, "Lord, that I might receive my sight." Mark 10:52 reads, "Then Jesus said to him, "Go your way; your faith has made you well." And immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus on the road." It is telling that after Jesus opened the man's eyes, he used them to follow Jesus, the One who had made him whole. I believe with eyes of faith this man understood. His eyes would likely grow dim with age and one day close permanently in death. So often we are without contentment and ask God to change our circumstances. In the instances when He does, our tendency is to immediately ask for the next thing instead of following Him today in joyful thanksgiving. Perhaps God is gracious and good to allow difficult trials so we will realise we need Him and not just something from Him. The blind man who Jesus made whole teaches all who are willing to see. Jesus said "Go your way," and the man did: Jesus was his way, truth, and life.
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