As a student in school, when I struggled to understand maths concepts I would look at examples and try to mimic them; I turned to the back of the book to find the correct answer and work backwards to see how to arrive at that solution. I approached to the teacher and fellow classmates for more information and details to better understand. I dug into textbooks (in days before the internet) and asked questions because I wanted to know how to find the correct answer. It wasn't because I had a burning desire to be competent in calculus, but because I needed to pass the class. I wasn't interested in personal enrichment, gaining knowledge I would use in a career, or to claw my way out of ignorance: I wanted to pass the class and move on.
I have observed we can have a similar approach concerning spiritual matters. Sometimes we are content to be told what to believe without having to think or examine ourselves according to God's word. We simply desire the security and comfort that comes from believing we know what is true and right. We look for an answer to our question to support our beliefs, to show others they are wrong, or to validate or justify our practices. We may not be interested or willing to learn to change at all! But God is wise to give us His word, the Holy Spirit, and to connect us with fellow believers in a world that is contrary to God so we might learn, grow in understanding, be further refined and fruitful. While we are seeking a formula to follow so we can arrive at our preferred end, God works to transform us from the inside out and make us more like Him.
As students we were told to correct our own papers that were written in pencil. There was always a temptation to rub out the wrong answer and change it to right one when it is we who needed correction and changing. When God tests us, it often isn't a test we pass or fail: God's tests are meant to refine and purify us, to expose our sin to us so we will repent. We can be so focused on being told what to do or believe we neglect seeking God for His sake and embracing our personal sanctification. While we are looking for a checklist of spiritual disciplines like chores to do so we can move on from them, as God would have us continue to rely upon Him, abide in and follow Him. God is doing a work in our hearts by His grace and He impacts our entire lives presently and our future. Jesus did not always give easy answers, but He bids us to take His yoke upon us (which is easy and light!) and learn of Him, for in Him we find rest for our souls.