"It
is not good to eat much honey; so to seek one's own
glory is not glory."
Proverbs 25:27
Honey is very sweet, and it is a sweetener we can feel sick of eating. Previously in the chapter it said in Proverbs 25:16: "Have
you found honey? Eat only as much as you need, lest you be filled with it and vomit." Some people do not process fructose well, and that may be a reason for nausea or vomiting from eating too much honey. The days of Solomon were long before pasteurisation was a thing, and eating raw honey can also potentially expose eaters to natural toxins bees pick up from poisonous plants or flowers they visit. I read of rare cases of people being allergic to honey due to the pollen source used by bees. The point is, we can have too much of a good thing.
With this is mind, Solomon used synonymous parallelism to connect seeking the praise of people. We likely all appreciate being recognised or complimented for a job well done or to be singled out for a promotion because of hard work, but like eating too much honey it is not good to seek one's own glory. When we hunger for the approval of people and seek validation through them, it does not benefit us in the end. Seeking compliments and affirmation of ourselves puts self in the centre and uses people to get a sugar-rush of approval that will quickly fade and leave us craving more.
Jesus told a parable to guests at a feast after observing how they chose the best places for themselves in Luke 14:8-11: "When you are invited by anyone to a wedding feast, do not sit
down in the best place, lest one more honorable than you be invited by
him; 9 and he who invited you and him come and say to you, 'Give place
to this man,' and then you begin with shame to take the lowest place. 10 But when
you are invited, go and sit down in the lowest place, so that when he who
invited you comes he may say to you, 'Friend, go up higher.' Then you will have
glory in the presence of those who sit at the table with you. 11 For whoever
exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be
exalted." What Jesus said illustrated Solomon's proverb well, for those who sought the best places were not exalted. Seeking their own glory was not glory, for in many cases those who sought the best places were made to move and sit in the lowest place when a more honourable guest arrived.
Those who were invited to the feast and took the lowest place could be singled out by the host as a friend and made to "go up higher." The one who was humbled to be an invited guest and took the low place would have glory in the presence of others at the table. Taking the best place for yourself does not result in exaltation or praise but leads to shame. Imagine boarding an aeroplane and deciding you would sit in first class when you booked economy! Only embarrassment would result as you were made to move to your original seat. Think of the difference of booking economy and having the pilot--an old friend from school--single you out and say, "Friend, I have a better seat for you. Come with me." See how much better and greater glory we have by God's grace than when we seek to take it for ourselves? It is as Jesus said: he would exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.