Refusing Comfort?
When facing tragedy and loss, we can be overwhelmed with hopeless feelings to the point we can refuse comfort. We observe this in the life of Jacob after his eldest son Reuben presented the special colourful coat Joseph wore that was torn and soiled with blood. There was no mistaking the coat, for Jacob had given it to his son who was at the time 17 years old. The destroyed state of the coat caused Jacob to assume the worst. Genesis 37:34-35 reads, " Then Jacob tore his clothes, put sackcloth on his waist, and mourned for his son many days. 35 And all his sons and all his daughters arose to comfort him; but he refused to be comforted, and he said, "For I shall go down into the grave to my son in mourning." Thus his father wept for him ." Because Joseph was precious to His father, he took no comfort from his sons, daughters and grandchildren. He was determined to grieve the loss of his son presently and perpetually, for the death of Jos...