Hint or Question?
From a young age, I remember my dad putting into practice the truth of scripture: "Ask and ye shall receive." While some parents are content to ask leading questions of their children, it was clear that if I wanted something I would need to ask for it. More and more these days I notice people don't actually ask for things: they will hint or resort to manipulative tactics to achieve their ends. For instance, let's say you see a child struggling to open the lid of a container. He grunts and groans, making his frustration known. His mum notices the struggles of her son and says, "Do you want me to open that for you?" The child nods and brings it to his mum to open. This is an unscriptural way to deal with this issue. If a child wants help, he must be required humble himself to ask for it. God requires no less of His children. Before long this can become a deeply entrenched habit the boy or parent won't even recognise w...