Excluded for Christ's Sake
When I was in high school, I remember going with a friend to a country club for a round of golf. Because there were only two of us, we figured we would be able to "walk on" without booking a tee-time previously. Perhaps it was because it was a Saturday morning or due to our intentionally loud sweaters, but we were turned away by an unimpressed staff member who said curtly, "You're not playing here today." Being excluded from the golf course was a disappointment, and even a reasonable explanation wouldn't have changed anything. We wanted to play golf, and it wasn't happening. Everyone, to some degree, has experienced being excluded from something we wanted to take part in. Our job application has been rejected; our offer of friendship was rebuffed. We have been made redundant from a job or had people refuse to even speak with us. Even when we have achieved or obtained our desire, the actual experience may fall short of our expectations. I p...