"Better a poor and wise youth than an old and
foolish king who will be admonished no more."
Ecclesiastes 4:13
It is said that with age comes wisdom, and this certainly can be true. It is also true that a good and wise king can make foolish decisions and be unwilling to be instructed or corrected. A king is in a position of great power and influence, yet life experience and political savvy is no substitute for wisdom that only comes from God. Only those who maintain a humble posture in faith before the LORD will be divinely enabled to walk in wisdom.
A wise youth and a foolish king both at times need to be admonished, for there is no man who does not sin. It is not primarily the absence of sin that marks the wise or foolish person but their response to instruction and correction reveals their hearts truly. Proverbs 1:7 says, "The fear
of the LORD is the
beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and
instruction." Fools are revealed in their disdain to be instructed or corrected, for it is an affront to their pride and conceit. As Proverbs 12:15 tells us, "The
way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who
heeds counsel is wise." Unlike a fool, the wise will receive rebuke and repent of sin as it is written in Proverbs 17:10: "Rebuke is more effective for a wise man than a hundred blows on a fool." When disciplinary action is ineffective to address behaviour, it is not the discipline that is the problem but the person who stubbornly refuses to amend their ways.
Consider the difference between the ways scoffers (who fall into the foolish category) and the wise and how they respond to correction, rebuke and instruction in Proverbs 9:7-9 says, "He
who corrects a scoffer gets shame for himself, and he who
rebukes a wicked man only harms himself. 8 Do not correct a
scoffer, lest he hate you; rebuke a wise man, and he
will love you. 9 Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still
wiser; teach a just man, and he will increase in
learning." It is good for us to ask ourselves: when admonished or rebuked, does our love for that person increase or do we hate them? Our hatred is exposed when we realise hatred means to love less, to be more apt to avoid and ignore a person rather than include them and have an inclination toward helping them.
Solomon's proverb suggests there was a time when a king would accept correction and be admonished, but a day came when he became lifted up with pride, was full of himself and indignation: he was king! How dare anyone speak to him in this manner? Was he so inept and foolish he needed instruction? If his thoughts were along these lines, a wise man would experience conviction of the Holy Spirit and identify the foolish plague of pride in his own heart that must be confessed and repented of as sin. God can use a foolish youth to rebuke and correct a wise old king. Let us not miss the message God speaks to us because of the brashness or folly of His messenger. Believers, as we grow older may we remain as that poor and wise youth, for God promises the poor in spirit the kingdom of God.