One Thing We Need

"For three things the earth is perturbed, yes, for four it cannot bear up: ²² for a servant when he reigns, a fool when he is filled with food, ²³ a hateful woman when she is married, and a maidservant who succeeds her mistress."

Proverbs 30:21-23

King Solomon said the earth is perturbed when a servant rules, and there is certainly trouble when the unqualified are in charge.  When I worked in a trade I quickly learned not all apprentices I trained handled authority well.  Some imagined additional responsibility was license to delegate their duties to others and cease from profitable labour.  They were unreasonably harsh towards others with less seniority as if they were somehow beneath them.  Let us not think only apprentices are to whom this verse applies, for as God's servants we can try to impose our will on Him.

In Luke 10 Martha invited Jesus into her home, and she and Mary sat as His feet and heard His word.  She was an attentive hostess and sought to serve Jesus well.  Luke 10:40 says, "But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, "Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me."  Martha served Jesus as her LORD, yet she spoke to Him as His lord!  She questioned if Jesus cared about her having to serve alone while her sister was idle, so she demanded Jesus tell Mary to help.  Like Martha, our lives can be filled with contradictions:  desiring to serve but demanding our conditions are met; calling Jesus Master but telling Him what to do.

Instead of agreeing with Martha or caving to her demands, Jesus responded with a gentle rebuke--not of Mary but of Martha.  Luke 10:41-42 reads, "And Jesus answered and said to her, "Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. ⁴² But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her."  Martha was distracted, worried, and troubled by many things and in doing so missed the one necessary thing:  to sit at Jesus feet and hear His word.  She imagined she was doing the serving, but Jesus came as a Servant of all.  While Martha hurriedly washed up Jesus taught how eternal souls could be washed clean of sin.  She worked to put snacks on the table when He came as the Living Bread from heaven who gives eternal life to all who receive Him by faith.

Jesus alone has the words of life, and it follows we ought to drop whatever we think is important to hear Him first.  To Martha it looked like Mary wasn't pulling her weight, but she had chosen the one thing that was needed without the distraction of multi-tasking.  Is there time set aside each day where you are doing nothing but seeking to hear from the LORD?  There is nothing wrong with praying while laying in bed, surfing, jogging, or golfing, but what a fruitful time God provides when we drop everything to sit as His feet to receive from Him what will not be taken away.  As servants of God let us not make demands of Him or be encumbered with much serving so we miss what we need:  to hear the Word of God.

The Unloved

In everyone there is a thirst to be loved and accepted that is not always satisfied by others.  Leah is an example of this.  There was a woman who was desperate to be loved but no amount of her efforts worked to achieve it.

Jacob worked 7 years for Rachel's hand in marriage, but his deceitful future father-in-law substituted her old sister Leah who is described as "tender eyed."  There are opinions on the exact meaning of this, but it is put in contrast to Rachel being beautiful and well-favoured.  This suggests there was something about Leah's eyes which were not beautiful.  Jacob was angry when he discovered Leah had been given to him in marriage, and a week later consummated a marriage with her sister Rachel.  It says plainly in Genesis 29:30 Jacob "loved Rachel more than Leah."  The rivalry would plague their relationship, and each tried to outdo the other.

God saw what was going on in Genesis 29:31-32:  "When the LORD saw that Leah was unloved, He opened her womb; but Rachel was barren. ³² So Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben; for she said, "The LORD has surely looked on my affliction. Now therefore, my husband will love me."  It is hard for Leah being in a marriage where she was unloved, but she very much desired to be loved.  Hoping to earn her husband's love was a chief pursuit for Leah.  See Genesis 29:33-34:  "Then she conceived again and bore a son, and said, "Because the LORD has heard that I am unloved, He has therefore given me this son also." And she called his name Simeon. ³⁴ She conceived again and bore a son, and said, "Now this time my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons." Therefore his name was called Levi."  Having borne three sons, Leah hoped her husband would love and be attached to her.  The KJV puts it, "joined unto me."  The lack of love put distance between Jacob and Leah.

A day came when Ruben, Leah's firstborn, found mandrakes in a field.  Rachel asked for them, hoping they would help her fertility issue.  Leah's feelings are on display in Genesis 30:15, "Is it a small matter that you have taken away my husband? Would you take away my son's mandrakes also?" And Rachel said, "Therefore he will lie with you tonight for your son's mandrakes."  Based upon this verse it seems Leah did not live or sleep with her husband, and she had to make a trade with Rachel for the privilege.  Leah felt like her husband and his affections had been stolen away by her sister, for Rachel was loved and she was unloved.  It is sad and tragic many people feel very much like Leah:  hungry for love and acceptance, working hard to earn it, and never measuring up.

I wonder if this is how people feel who are looking for likes, acceptance, and even love online, posting pictures of themselves in exotic places or exposing their sculpted physique to attract followers.  No matter how much a celebrity loves their fans, their fans love the persona or illusion more than the reality they cannot know from watching a film or performance.  In relationships which turn abusive people still long for love; they desire another person to be joined to them in a friendship or romance.  They give their hearts searching for "the one" who will love them against the odds and every previous experience only to be disappointed again.

How good it is when we realise God loves us by His grace and no one can separate us from His everlasting love!  He loves the unloved and unlovable, having demonstrated His love through Jesus Christ and His death on the cross for sinners.  God loves us not because we have worked hard to earn it, nor could our weakness deter it:  God loves us no matter what.  This love cannot be earned but received through faith in Jesus Christ as we read in John 3:16:  "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."  God didn't love the globe we call earth, but He loves all the people He created on the earth to know Him and be joined with Him forever.  It is in God alone our thirst for love and acceptance is perfectly satisfied, and I hope Leah learned that.

God's Blessing

I came across a connection I found interesting between Laban and and his nephew Jacob:  they were always working angles for their benefit.  When Abraham's servant came to Nahor to find a wife for his master's son Isaac Genesis 24:29-31 reads, "Now Rebekah had a brother whose name was Laban, and Laban ran out to the man by the well. ³⁰ So it came to pass, when he saw the nose ring, and the bracelets on his sister's wrists, and when he heard the words of his sister Rebekah, saying, "Thus the man spoke to me," that he went to the man. And there he stood by the camels at the well. ³¹ And he said, "Come in, O blessed of the LORD! Why do you stand outside? For I have prepared the house, and a place for the camels." (emphasis mine)  Laban was glad to favour people from whom he could enrich himself.  Laban proved to be a shrewd man, always seeking his own prosperity at the expense of others.

Jacob was the younger of Isaac's twin sons born to Rebekah, and he too had a penchant to scheme for his own advantage.  He managed to weasel Esau out of his birthright and blessing.  He was sent to Laban's house in Padanaram to marry within the family, and though a "man of the tents" by God's grace he found the way.  Genesis 29:10 says, "And it came to pass, when Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother's brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother's brother, that Jacob went near and rolled the stone from the well's mouth, and watered the flock of Laban his mother's brother." (emphasis mine)  Jacob was impressed by the beauty of Rachel and the bounty of Laban's flock, and ended up staying with Laban.  Laban acknowledged in Genesis 29:14, "Surely you are my bone and my flesh." And he stayed with him for a month."  At the end of the month, Laban made the generous offer to Jacob to state his wages--wages Laban agreed to but changed 10 times.

Jacob served Laban for 7 years for the privilege of marrying Rachel, but Laban gave him Leah instead.  He asked Jacob to serve another 7 years to marry Rachel and because he loved her Jacob did so.  When Jacob asked to be released from his service Genesis 30:27 reads, "And Laban said to him, "Please stay, if I have found favour in your eyes, for I have learned by experience that the LORD has blessed me for your sake."  Laban and Jacob wanted blessing from the LORD, and the blessing they sought meant material possessions.  Jacob ended up leaving Padanaram with wives, sons, daughters, servants, flocks and herds, more than he could have ever dreamed of receiving.

A touch from God changed the old schemer, and gave him a new name.  Genesis 32:24-30 records a compelling scene as Jacob fretting over returning to his country and his brother Esau:  "Then Jacob was left alone; and a Man wrestled with him until the breaking of day. ²⁵ Now when He saw that He did not prevail against him, He touched the socket of his hip; and the socket of Jacob's hip was out of joint as He wrestled with him. ²⁶ And He said, "Let Me go, for the day breaks." But he said, "I will not let You go unless You bless me!" ²⁷ So He said to him, "What is your name?" He said, "Jacob." ²⁸ And He said, "Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel; for you have struggled with God and with men, and have prevailed." ²⁹ Then Jacob asked, saying, "Tell me Your name, I pray." And He said, "Why is it that you ask about My name?" And He blessed him there. ³⁰ And Jacob called the name of the place Peniel: "For I have seen God face to face, and my life is preserved."

From that day forward Israel walked with a limp and a blessing received from God.  Instead of scheming for gain he gave:  he gave his brother a generous present, bought land where he made an offering to God, gave Joseph a coat of many colours, gave money for food from Egypt, and even gave his youngest son Benjamin at the request of an unknown ruler in Egypt--who happened to be his beloved and long-lost Joseph.  His life began to reflect the giving and generous God he worshiped.  Isn't God awesome in the way He changes people?  He gives those who seek Him a new name, blessings, and a glorious destiny by His grace.

The Heart Requirement

The almighty God is unapproachable in glory, yet He graciously called the children of Israel as His own inheritance.  He graciously made a covenant with them and His presence dwelt among them.  Offering sacrifices to God under Law became ingrained in the culture of Israel and over time a subtle shift occurred:  people offered sacrifices who did not know God.  They imagined on the basis of their sacrifice they were pleasing and acceptable to God regardless of what they did.  Sin was like a debt in a ledger which sacrifice blotted out, and the greater the sacrifice the more righteous or pious the person.  Ironic, right?

I read this today in Micah 6:6-8:  "With what shall I come before the LORD, and bow myself before the High God? Shall I come before Him with burnt offerings, with calves a year old? ⁷ Will the LORD be pleased with thousands of rams, ten thousand rivers of oil? Shall I give my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? ⁸ He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?"  God was not interested in the apology gifts of His people but preferred they obediently walk in His ways.  You've heard the quote attributed to Benjamin Franklin that "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure," and it rings true here.  The prophet revealed no amount of sacrifice makes a man worthy to approach God, and even offering your child as a burnt offering cannot wash hearts and hands of sin.  Better than sacrificing for sin they should walk in the good way God already directed.

God despised and refused to receive the sacrifices of the proud who gave only in response to their guilt instead of God's worthiness.  They vainly hoped greater sacrifice would make them worthy, but no sinner has merit to be acceptable to God.  God desired His people would do justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with their God.  The Father sent Jesus Christ the Son to be the Saviour of the world, and He has bid all men by faith to walk with Him.  Jesus is the Lamb of God without blemish who the Father ordained as a sinless and acceptable sacrifice for the sins of the world.  No man can earn heaven by their gifts, but as many as have received Jesus to them He gives power to become the sons of God by grace through faith.

People in Micah's day made sacrifices which gave them glory before men, and men viewed them as righteous though they gave out of guilt for sin.  They forgot sacrifices are not offered by the righteous but by sinners!  Man looks at the outside, but God looks at the heart.  As Jesus and His disciples watched people contribute money to the Temple treasury, He pointed out a poor widow who threw in two mites--the smallest denomination of coinage.  To their great surprise He said she gave more than all because she gave out of her lack.  This likely has more than financial implications:  she gave without pride, arrogance, or self-confidence from a heart that hungered and thirsted for God.  David wrote in Psalm 51:17, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, a broken and a contrite heart--these, O God, You will not despise."  It isn't the monetary value of the sacrifice which impresses God but hearts which are broken and humbled before Him.

To obey is better than sacrifice, and the broken and contrite heart is willing to give God all.