My uncle's thinly veiled hypocrisy was clear to me, that he was adamant smoking was bad for his grandson when he continued to smoke himself. I assume his motive to protect his grandson from the fangs of addiction was genuine, but at the same time he resigned himself to a slavish relationship with smoking. Perhaps he had tried in vain to quit smoking. I don't know. What I do know from observing my uncle and his grandson is there can be things people see as bad for others which they continue to do themselves. Based on my uncle's statement, his outburst was not because the boy was not of legal smoking age, but because he thought it was a bad habit his grandson would do well to avoid altogether.
My point in sharing this story is not to decry the evils of addiction or smoking, but it is to sound the alarm over hypocrisy that can be coddled in the hearts of every one of God's people. Having been born again by faith in Jesus, we have passed from death to life. Paul wrote in Romans 6:1-4, "What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin that grace may
abound? 2 Certainly not! How shall we
who died to sin live any longer in it? 3 Or do you not know that as many of us as were baptized into Christ
Jesus were baptized into His death? 4 Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that
just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we
also should walk in newness of life." Our lives should be a testimony of new life through Jesus by freedom from sin. As God reveals our addictions to sinful ways of thinking, talking and doing, we are to repent and put on the LORD Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh.
It is tragic when Christians have been so mentally and physically beaten by a sin they are like my uncle, resigned to addiction as if there was no point trying to quit. This is where the problem often lies: we have failed to walk in the victory granted by Jesus because we have tried in strength of our flesh to overcome what Jesus already has. Content with salvation, people can give up the fight against besetting sins because God will forgive them anyway. Conviction over their behaviour as sin has been muted because it has been justified so long. They can see their sin as being bad for others, yet they accept the sin as a regular part of life and have settled for trying to make peace with it by indulging it. Brothers and sisters, this ought not to be. We are not to allow sin to rule in our bodies any longer, for we have been made alive to God. Paul said in Romans 6:18-19: "And
having been set free from sin, you became slaves of righteousness. 19 I speak in human terms
because of the weakness of your flesh. For just as you presented your members
as slaves of uncleanness, and of lawlessness leading to
more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves of
righteousness for holiness." This is a choice we can make by God's grace.
It can be easier to recognise sin in others we remain blind to in ourselves. My uncle's irritation in seeing his grandson play with his cigarettes could have been an impetus to examining his own conduct and the example he set for the boy every time he lit a cigarette. The same reasons he did not want his grandson to start smoking in the future were solid reasons for him to quit right then. There are aids that exist to help people break the habit of smoking, and there are steps believers can take to avoid sinning and doing what is right instead. When it comes to sin our aim ought to be to quit "cold turkey" because we are dead to it and it is not our master any more. We are called to present ourselves as slaves of righteousness and living sacrifices to Jesus, and how blessed we are the Holy Spirit and our fellow Christians help us on our journey of sanctification.