Hanging Out With Jesus
I was reminded recently of a conversation I had with a Christian brother who grew up in the Midwest and moved to California later in life. He said one of the things he missed about his culture back home was it was acceptable and expected for friends to just "drop by" for a chat when they were in the area. Having grown up and lived in California for a large portion of my life, I can affirm some do see it as inconsiderate and intrusive to show up at a friend's house without first calling ahead as a courtesy. Mobile phones have made this even more expected. My friend preferred the freedom to offer and receive hospitality at a moment's notice, for people to drop whatever they were doing to open the door and welcome you into their home--or vice versa. He valued this accessibility and hospitality as a basic courtesy that was foreign to many Californians he met. I had a friend at high school who lived in a gated residence on a prominent hill in the East County of ...