The Benefit of Failure

Our mistakes have the ability to teach us things instant success never could.  Sinful choices reveal our limitations, short-sightedness, bankruptcy of good character, and an abundance of wickedness.  It is only God's grace which can take a failure and make it the impetus to positive, lasting change.  Our mistakes can produce sorrowful repentance not to be repented of (2 Cor. 7:10).  Peter said he would never deny Jesus, and three times the same night he did.  When he realised what he had done and remembered what Jesus had said, he wept bitterly.  That was the last time recorded in scripture Peter ever wavered concerning his absolute loyalty and public commitment to Jesus.  His failure was the path to redemption, for he had a Redeemer in Christ.

I don't know anyone who enjoys admitting they have made a mistake or have done wrong, but sorrow over sin is helpful to promote spiritual maturity.  Solomon wrote in Ecclesiastes 7:3-5, "Sorrow is better than laughter, for by a sad countenance the heart is made better. ⁴ The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. ⁵ It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise than for a man to hear the song of fools."  It is important to recognise the biblical definition of the wise and fools has all to do with a person's perspective of God.  The wise man hears the words of Jesus and practices them, but the fool lives as if there is no God besides self.  In theatre or film most prefer comedies over tragedies, but there is value in considering the sober consequences of sinful decisions.  We learn more about life through tragedy than jokes.  Solomon said it is better to be rebuked by a wise man than to hear the song of fools.  Better to see the error of our ways in the light of scripture and take intentional steps to change than to try to drink and sing our troubles away.

It is wonderful when we are wise to learn from the tragedies of others rather than blazing sinful trails ourselves.  As long as we live in these bodies of flesh sin is inevitable, but we ought to take steps to avoid it and practice righteousness.  God has given us the Holy Spirit and the Bible to guide us, and when we sin and fail we can warn others of the undeniably awful consequences of that lifestyle.  Things which soil our minds and wound our souls ought to be put far from us.  It is good to have a long memory of the disastrous results of sin, the bitterness of guilt, and retain the sense of shame and horror of transgression so we will not persist in evil.  At the same time, Christians are to live in the light without condemnation for our past, washed clean and pure by the blood of Jesus Christ.  Humbled by God's pardon and deemed righteous by grace, our joy is full as we have fellowship with God and walk in obedience to Him.

Proverbs 9:8-10 says, "Do not correct a scoffer, lest he hate you; rebuke a wise man, and he will love you. ⁹ Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a just man, and he will increase in learning. ¹⁰ The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding."  These verses prompt two questions we should ask ourselves:  how do I respond to rebuke, and do I fear God and love men enough to rebuke others?  A wise man walks in God's ways and gently rebukes those who wander into or persist in sin.  If we resent those who correct us, we play the fool.  Even if people are harsh and unfair in their judgment of us, let us determine to love and pray for them.  It is fitting we should sorrow over our sins, and godly sorrow produces repentance and a new beginning.  We will fail, but our gracious Saviour who makes all things new will never fail us.