Broken is Better

I was reminded recently of the refrain of the hit by the British band Yes that goes, "Owner of a lonely heart, (much better than an) owner of a broken heart."  The song is certainly catchy, but I don't know I ever bothered to consider if this assertion is true when I sang along.  Beauty and often truth these days is determined by personal perspective, but looking at this through a biblical lens provides insight and clarity to crushed feelings we all experience in this life.

God created man needy and for relationship with Him and other people.  Feelings of loneliness can plague people who know and trust God as well as those who enjoy meaningful relationships.  Loneliness can be exacerbated by unhealthy self-focus.  The feelings of being alone (and varying degrees of isolation) can be fleeting or chronic depending on more factors than I can suggest.  The point I feel inclined to consider is no heart created by the living God needs to settle for perpetual loneliness when God has revealed Himself, spoken to us, and abides in us.  A prisoner in solitary confinement can be enraptured in communion and fellowship with God because of the intimate relationship God has offered all who trust Him.  A constant in the life of human beings is potential for rapid changes of feelings and mood like cities that can experience all seasons in a day:  the bright happiness and new growth of spring, fierce thunderclaps of summer with oppressive humidity from which is there is no escape, autumn's chill with cutting wind that bends trees which groan, and the depressing freeze and solitary deadness of winter.

In spite of frightful weather, even in winter the warmth and brightness of a burning hearth can be enjoyed for those who gather wood and stoke the flames.  This is where the broken heart comes in.  Like the song implies, no one wants their heart to be broken.  It is a sorrowful, painful, and depressing prospect.  God is able to heal and restore broken hearts presented humbly to Him and these desperate, hopeless feelings can be the very thing which causes us to seek God at all.  A broken heart makes us feel weak, helpless, and hopeless, but this is the arena where God is uniquely poised to joyfully work His wonders.  David wrote in Psalm 51:15-17, "O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth shall show forth Your praise. ¹⁶ For You do not desire sacrifice, or else I would give it; You do not delight in burnt offering. ¹⁷ The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, a broken and a contrite heart--these, O God, You will not despise."  As long as we remain under the illusion we are strong and sufficient to handle the griefs and difficulties of life we will not seek wholeness only God can bring.

In a synagogue in Nazareth Jesus Christ opened the scroll of Isaiah.  Luke 4:18 records some of the words Jesus read to His hearers, words He fulfilled that day in their presence:  "The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me, because He has anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed..."  Jesus was anointed by the Holy Spirit and sent to preach the Gospel, heal the brokenhearted, proclaim liberty to captives, recover sight of the blind, and set free the oppressed.  After Jesus miraculously gave sight to a man born blind, Pharisees asked him, "Are we also blind?"  John 9:41 reads, "Jesus said to them, "If you were blind, you would have no sin; but now you say, 'We see.' Therefore your sin remains."  Jesus was able to open the eyes of a man born blind and was also able to forgive sins.  Since these skeptics did not believe in Christ and self-righteously justified themselves as without need to repent their sin remained.  IF they would admit their blindness moved by faith in Jesus, if they would admit their sin and need for forgiveness, Jesus would give them sight and set them free from the oppression of sin.  But since they would not admit their need they remained blind and broken.  The same principle applies with broken hearts:  God will not heal hearts people refuse to admit are broken.

It is good to own our hearts are broken and present ourselves to Jesus Christ as our Healer and Saviour.  His mighty deeds culminating in His resurrection proves He accomplished what God sent Him to do:  He preached the Gospel, opened the eyes of the blind, and healed broken hearts.  A broken heart healed and made new by the grace of God through faith in Jesus need never be lonely, for Jesus has sent the Holy Spirit to comfort and help us.  Jesus has promised to never leave or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5), and all are blessed who seek and look to Him as LORD.  Having been purchased at great cost to God, He becomes our Owner who gives us a new heart and mind.  Feelings come and go, but those who abide in Christ will find themselves miraculously sustained.  Better to have a broken heart and come to Jesus and be healed than to resign to loneliness without hope.  For this reason the broken heart, strange as it may seem, is better.