"Does a
spring send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening? 12 Can a fig tree, my brethren, bear
olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Thus no spring yields both salt water and
fresh."
James 3:11-12
A tree has many distinguishing characteristics, and fruit is a primary one. I am sure there are scientific ways to tell whether water is fresh or salty, but a little taste is usually all we need to know the difference. There are places where salty sea water and fresh water combine, but the point of the observation of James is to illustrate how springs do not produce fresh water one day and salt water the next. A fig tree brings forth figs, and it would be silly to argue a tree with sweet figs hanging from its branches is actually an olive tree.
Silly as it is, we can do this very thing and live in denial of the reality. If our mouths are filled with cursing and bitterness, this is an excellent indicator of the current state of our hearts. We cannot assume we are walking in the joy of the LORD and at peace when we are agitated, frustrated, and afraid. It is not what enters a man but what comes out of him that defiles, and the troubling thing is our ability to negatively affect others. Have you found when others are in a "bad" mood it begins to affect your attitude and outlook? Adding salt affects the flavour of the whole dish, and our bitterness has a way of permeating our minds and poisoning others.
Hebrews 12:14-15 says, "Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which
no one will see the Lord: 15 looking
carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of
bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled..." The writer of Hebrews says we ought to be watchful there is no root of bitterness which springs up in us. Receiving and walking in the grace of God enables us to experience godliness with contentment, but bitterness often starts when we refuse to forgive or when our expectations remain unmet. Some roots travel long distances underground to draw water unnoticed, but the thing about bitterness is it will spring up; it will show itself in our attitudes, words, and coldness towards others.
Sometimes we don't realise we are bitter because it is a flavour we are accustomed to. Praise the LORD the Living Water - the Holy Spirit - is always pure and free from salty contamination. He brings conviction of sin and knowledge of our need to repent. Bitterness can spring up about any old thing, even about a sports team. I have a friend (and this person was not alone!) who was upset about the ownership of the NFL San Diego Chargers deciding to move to Los Angeles. When the move was made I saw videos of former Charger fans burning their jerseys and swearing never to support the team for this betrayal. My friend said something to the effect of, "Is it wrong that now I want the Chargers to lose?" That, my friend, sounds a lot like bitterness. Betrayal or being offended isn't the only path to bitterness. For us bitterness is potentially seconds away.
If we find ourselves secretly enjoying the fall our failure of our enemy, without saying a word the evidence of bitterness is within us. It is only a matter of time before it springs up and defiles others. Let us heed the exhortation of Ephesians 4:31-32 on sins to repent of and what to do instead: "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamour, and evil speaking be put
away from you, with all malice. 32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another,
just as God in Christ forgave you." Again, there is a connection between bitterness and refusal to forgive others. Unless the root of bitterness is pulled out completely, it will spring up again. Hasn't God been gracious to forgive us? Rejoice in His forgiveness by releasing others, celebrating the freedom from guilt and bitterness.