Jesus Rings True
" A man who has friends must himself be friendly, b ut there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother ." Proverbs 18:24 The friend you desire is the friend you ought to be to others. C.S. Lewis wrote something profound in his book The Four Loves : " The very condition of having Friends is that we should want something else besides Friends ." (Martindale, Wayne, and Jerry Root. The Quotable Lewis . Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 2005. page 236) If all you want is a friend - like a child who is glad to have a neighbour for an hour and then for them to go home - then it should be no surprise you find friendship rare. Friends are not a commodity to possess but a fellow to walk alongside and encourage through life. Yet if a person offers intimacy and accepts others with the same love reserved for family, this is a friend worth having. Friendship is a gift of God we can cultivate which knits hearts together with a connection truer than that o...