In high school I remember being invited to a friend's house and it had features completely different from my home. The first difference was an automated gate that required using an intercom to gain access to the driveway. The house was perched on acreage overlooking the valley, and the property had a pool, a couple holes of golf and a tennis court. As the gate slowly opened, it was like a whole different world opened up to you--by invitation only. There was no way to drive down the driveway or enter the house unless your were a privileged guest.
It is special to be invited to an event like a wedding or party and find your name written on a card in anticipation of your arrival. At such events it is not uncommon for some people to be unable to attend and for the seat to remain empty. Drinks are poured, food is brought out, and it sits untouched unless it is taken by other guests or cleared by hospitality workers. I find it sad for the host and the prospective guest, for both would have benefitted from the blessing to offer hospitality and the blessing of receiving it.
As special and exclusive as personal invitations can be, there is none that can really compare with the offer of salvation and a place at the table in the presence of God. Jesus told a parable about the kingdom of heaven where a king invited his subjects to a wedding. The day came when he sent servants to summon them to the feast already prepared only to find they would not come because they were busy or made light of it. After executing judgment upon them, he commanded they invite anyone they could find so the wedding would be furnished with all manner of guests. This the servants did.
Jesus said in Matthew 22:11-14, "But when the king came in to see the
guests, he saw a man there who did not have on a wedding garment. 12 So he said
to him, 'Friend, how did you come in here without a wedding garment?' And he was
speechless. 13 Then the king said to the servants, 'Bind him hand and foot,
take him away, and cast him into outer
darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.' 14 For many are called, but
few are chosen." When the king came to see the guests, he saw a man without a wedding garment which would have been graciously provided for all guests. For whatever reason, this man was fine to attend but refused to observe the dress code. After being confronted by the king himself the man had no answer, was bound and thrown into outer darkness.
The man possibly bound with pride and self-righteousness on the basis of his invitation was rendered speechless because he had not submitted himself to his king. One point Jesus made to His listeners is it is not enough to be invited or to accept an invitation, but for all guests to wear the suitable apparel the king provided for his guests. The correlation is clear: if any man will enter the kingdom of God, it must be through faith in Jesus Christ. Those who trust in Jesus are adorned with a robe of righteousness by faith in Him. Jesus gave His life so we could be invited and receive His offer of eternal life, and the irony is people can see it as a little thing--that our willingness to attend makes us worthy. We are not worthy in ourselves and never will be, for the gift of God is all of grace. If we will receive His gift of forgiveness and eternal life, we can only enter the kingdom of God one way: by faith in Jesus.
The clothes guests wear to formal events matter to the generous host, and God does care if we are clothed with faith in Christ and humility. Those who are born again are partakers of the divine nature and thus should be evidenced by virtue, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness and love. 2 Peter 1:10-11 says, "Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and
election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble; 11 for so an entrance will be supplied to you
abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ."