Reaffirm Your Love

"Therefore I urge you to reaffirm your love to him. ⁹ For to this end I also wrote, that I might put you to the test, whether you are obedient in all things. ¹⁰ Now whom you forgive anything, I also forgive. For if indeed I have forgiven anything, I have forgiven that one for your sakes in the presence of Christ, ¹¹ lest Satan should take advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his devices."

2 Corinthians 2:8-11

In his prior letter to the church in Corinth, Paul had exhorted the church to take seriously their responsibility to discipline a member of their fellowship who was living in sin.  The purpose of church discipline is not to punish or humiliate people, but for their ultimate restoration to a close relationship with God and his people.  The man repented of his sinful lifestyle and was truly penitent.  Paul exhorted them to forgive and comfort the man.  He urged them to "reaffirm your love to him."  This is a lovely benefit of being a part of the Body of Christ, the Church.  People will know we are Christians by our love for one another, even after mistakes have been made.

Paul concluded this section with an interesting observation, that Satan is able to take advantage of those who do not forgive.  Love keeps no record of wrongs, but unforgiveness and bitterness continue to claim wrongs and judge others as perpetually guilty.  Unforgiveness, disobedience, and all manner of sin cultivated in our hearts become tools of the devil, his effective devices to influence and deceive individuals who comprise the Church.  Satan cannot destroy the church, but he can sow discord and divide.  We are not ignorant of Satan's devices because we have all employed his tactics freely and liberally before we became Christians.  Perhaps Satan hoped to use the sinning man or Paul's strong rebuke to drive a wedge between relationships, to splinter and divide the church.  Thankfully his schemes were thwarted:  the church responded obediently, the man repented and was restored, and Paul encouraged them to reaffirm their love to him.

I am convinced confirmation of love is good evidence we have actually forgiven someone.  Sometimes we confuse forgiveness with "renewed agreement of civil toleration."  The words, "I forgive you" may have tumbled out of our mouths, but sometimes our affections towards the offending party cool.  Perhaps we do not feel they have suffered enough or have been let off easily.  We remember their cutting words and evil deeds and the pain remains fresh.  We are Christians, so we will agree to tolerate their presence.  We know if we do not forgive others, God will not forgive us.  So we shake their hand and smile, perhaps even sharing light conversation.  If we would be honest, we do not prefer to be around them.  For all we care, they can disappear and take their baggage along with them!  But we cannot blame them for our disobedience in refusing to forgive.  Forgiveness is an act of faith enabled by the power of the Holy Spirit.  It is a decision to transfer their sin toward us upon Christ, even as our trespasses have been laid upon Him!  We need to walk in the Spirit to love as well.  Then the joy of the LORD will be our strength, and the peace of God will guard our hearts and minds.  We will rejoice to affirm our love in practical ways, and begin to live in the liberty Christ has granted us by grace.

Isn't it great that God forgives our sin, reaffirms His love for us, and speaks comfort to our hearts?  How many practical ways God has demonstrated and confirmed His love for me again and again.  Instead of allowing Satan to take advantage of us through unforgiveness, let us forgive and affirm our love for one another.  The demonstration of God's love compels us to love one another, a tangible testimony to the church and the world of God's love that never fails.