God Preserves His People

 "Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits."

1 Corinthians 15:33

It is not uncommon for people to adopt or express behaviour they have found odious in others.  I can't remember how many times I have heard people share their own shock when they found themselves following the example of a person they swore they would never emulate.  People can become in character, words and actions exactly what they hate because of unwanted influence others had in their lives.  It is only the LORD Who can open our eyes to see it and provide the ability to change course from being enslaved to sin to walking in the way that pleases God.

David provides a good example of the corrupting influence others can have over us.  When King Saul was freshly crowned, he was a man marked by humility and grace.  However, it was not long before he fully embraced the role of a proud, domineering king who sought honour in the sight of people rather than God.  Even the way he spoke began to change, for his words began to be peppered with haughty oaths and curses.  1 Samuel 14:24 supplies an example:  "And the men of Israel were distressed that day, for Saul had placed the people under oath, saying, "Cursed is the man who eats any food until evening, before I have taken vengeance on my enemies." So none of the people tasted food."  When Saul's own son and heir to the throne was exposed for eating honey, unaware of the king's oath, the foolish king doubled-down in 1 Samuel 14:44, "And Saul answered, "God do so and more also; for you shall surely die, Jonathan."  Because of pride, Saul totally lost the plot and unnecessarily brought great distress and trouble to himself and his people.

As the son-in-law to king Saul who had a seat at his table,  David observed such arrogant behaviour firsthand on a daily basis.  David observed Saul's demeanor that was marked with boasting, oaths and curses.  The Spirit of God had departed from Saul and was upon David, and thus Saul feared David's favour with the people.  On numerous occasions Saul tried to spear David to the wall, and he barely escaped with his life.  I am sure David thought to himself, "I will never be a violent scoundrel like Saul, proudly boasting in his power to avenge himself."  But that is exactly what happened.  While David was on the run from king Saul, he and his men voluntarily protected the shearers of a rich man named Nabal.  After David politely asked Nabal for anything he could spare to help him and his men, Nabal answered the messengers roughly.  1 Samuel 25:21-22 says, "Now David had said, "Surely in vain I have protected all that this fellow has in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed of all that belongs to him. And he has repaid me evil for good. ²² May God do so, and more also, to the enemies of David, if I leave one male of all who belong to him by morning light."  This sounds a lot like Saul.

God was gracious to send Abigail, the wife of Nabal, to intercept David and humbly entreated him to receive her present and to refrain from avenging himself.  Unlike Saul, David took to heart the exhortation and gentle rebuke from Abigail, admitted his error, and expressed gratitude to God and Abigail for her wise advice.  1 Samuel 25:32-33 states, "Then David said to Abigail: "Blessed is the LORD God of Israel, who sent you this day to meet me! ³³ And blessed is your advice and blessed are you, because you have kept me this day from coming to bloodshed and from avenging myself with my own hand."  Evil company corrupts good habits, but praise be to God for sending the Holy Spirit and fellow God-fearing people who bring conviction of sin and wise correction so we might recognise our sin and turn from it to trust in the LORD.  We are not doomed to take on the character or flavour of an abusive family member, boss or bully as God's people because He has purposed to make us light of the world and the salt of the earth.  When we start taking on the flavour of sin or begin to walk in darkness, praise God for the Holy Spirit who guides us back to walking humbly and steadfastly with our God.