We live in a day when self sits on the throne. During my life I have seen the self-esteem movement develop, and digital technology and social media has made way for "selfies." A major aspect of social online activity has become self-promotion. The thirst for significance grows unabated, despite the self-serving platforms. There are countless ways humans search for significance: their interests, careers, and political, social, or religious inclinations. There is a desire in every person to be seen, appreciated, recognised, even liked. We put so much stock in seeking people's positive comments and opinions it becomes like an addictive drug that makes us feel better about ourselves. On the other hand, negative feedback and bullying has led to suicide attempts and even death.
I read a post the other day which suggested if you were a "real" friend you would read to the bottom of the post, pass it on, write one word that describes that person, etc. To me it was a cry, clear evidence a thirst for significance still unmet. Having hundreds of virtual "friends" was not enough, so a post was employed to guilt others into responding. Social interaction for some has gone far beyond an activity, but has become a quest for personal satisfaction and acceptance. Frankly, virtual relationships can never supply the deep emotional and spiritual needs of a person any more than it can feed your body when you are hungry. Seeking significance even in physical relationships is useless. Looking for lasting happiness through any activity or positive feedback in this world will leave you empty. It is like a man fishing for significance in the void of space where no fish are.
Thankfully, there is a way to have this thirst quenched. It can be satisfied only through a relationship with Jesus Christ. God is the one who created us, who knew us before we were knit together in the wombs of our mothers. Jesus is the one who demonstrated God's love for us, for whilst we were still sinners Christ died for us! Everything we need is found in Jesus! 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 says of the relationship of a Christian to Christ, "But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God--and righteousness and sanctification and redemption-- 31 that, as it is written, "He who glories, let him glory in the LORD."
God doesn't just "like" you - He loves you. Instead of seeking to satisfy self, glorifying God is what truly satisfies and brings rest to our souls. Apart from Christ those deep longings of the human soul for significance will remain unmet. As the Preacher in Ecclesiastes said of life on earth without God, "Meaningless! Vanity! All is meaningless!" We don't need to fish for significance or "likes" when believers already have acceptance and approval of God, the One who gave His own Son so we might live with Him forever. God loves with an everlasting love, and those who repent and trust in Him walk in that light. Isaiah 40:8 says, "The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God stands forever." God's love never fails, and He will never leave or forsake you. Pretty significant, I say!
I read a post the other day which suggested if you were a "real" friend you would read to the bottom of the post, pass it on, write one word that describes that person, etc. To me it was a cry, clear evidence a thirst for significance still unmet. Having hundreds of virtual "friends" was not enough, so a post was employed to guilt others into responding. Social interaction for some has gone far beyond an activity, but has become a quest for personal satisfaction and acceptance. Frankly, virtual relationships can never supply the deep emotional and spiritual needs of a person any more than it can feed your body when you are hungry. Seeking significance even in physical relationships is useless. Looking for lasting happiness through any activity or positive feedback in this world will leave you empty. It is like a man fishing for significance in the void of space where no fish are.
Thankfully, there is a way to have this thirst quenched. It can be satisfied only through a relationship with Jesus Christ. God is the one who created us, who knew us before we were knit together in the wombs of our mothers. Jesus is the one who demonstrated God's love for us, for whilst we were still sinners Christ died for us! Everything we need is found in Jesus! 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 says of the relationship of a Christian to Christ, "But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God--and righteousness and sanctification and redemption-- 31 that, as it is written, "He who glories, let him glory in the LORD."
God doesn't just "like" you - He loves you. Instead of seeking to satisfy self, glorifying God is what truly satisfies and brings rest to our souls. Apart from Christ those deep longings of the human soul for significance will remain unmet. As the Preacher in Ecclesiastes said of life on earth without God, "Meaningless! Vanity! All is meaningless!" We don't need to fish for significance or "likes" when believers already have acceptance and approval of God, the One who gave His own Son so we might live with Him forever. God loves with an everlasting love, and those who repent and trust in Him walk in that light. Isaiah 40:8 says, "The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God stands forever." God's love never fails, and He will never leave or forsake you. Pretty significant, I say!