When You’re Not “The Man”
There’s something inside every person which wants to be noticed, even recognised by others as exceptional. I remember laughing to myself during a scene in Tom Cruise’s “Minority Report” where a man paid to have a virtual experience with people shouting the affirmation, “You’re the man!” despite his denials of false humility. Dropping coin for compliments is not manly to be sure, yet he was willing to pay a price to be called “the man” even for a few fleeting moments. Deep inside I’m sure the man knew he wasn’t “the man,” nor would he ever be. His conscience could never agree fully with assessment, as much as he coveted the title. No matter what a man’s accomplishments or successes, he will always be simply a man. All men are born and die, leaving only a fading memory which is forgotten and lost over time. It is common for people to assume we can find lasting satisfaction and significance through our efforts or career advancement. But no ma...