Messages We Send
We cannot help how other people interpret the things we say, but we should think carefully about the message we can be unintentionally sending by what we do say. During seasons of political campaigning and the recent Voice Referendum in Australia, these unintended messages can negatively influence people. For instance, when supporters of the Voice urged voters to be "decent for once" or "show kindness" or "be on the right side of history" the message is a moral judgement that those who are leaning towards voting "no" are usually unsatisfactory, unkind and entrenched in being wrong. On the flip side, if we say the reason for voting "no" is that people "need to get a job" it is an unfounded accusation of laziness or freeloading. Without knowing it, things we say can be offensive and provide justification for us and our point of view to be rejected. In trying to build a bridge to bring people together, we can erect a wall to...