"Prepare your outside work, make it fit for
yourself in the field; and afterward build your
house."
Proverbs 24:27
God's word provides wise guidance concerning our priorities. Sometimes our natural inclination is to prioritise the wrong things or neglect to put "first things first." When flying in a aeroplane, directions are specifically given in case of an emergency that parents ought to fit their own oxygen mask first before helping their child or others. This may be due to parents prioritising the health and welfare of their child and their first instinct is to make sure their child is able to breathe. But if the parent does not put on their own mask first, they may lose consciousness and be unable to render the assistance their child requires for survival. Put on your own mask first, and then you can help others with fitting their masks.
On the subject of making judgments about others (especially negative ones), it is wise for the person who is offended to examine their own heart, conduct and words before weighing in on how others ought to change. Jesus said to His disciples in Matthew 7:3-5: "And why do you look at the speck in your brother's eye, but do
not consider the plank in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, 'Let me
remove the speck from your eye'; and look, a plank is in your own
eye? 5 Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then
you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." Jesus explained it was hypocritical to form judgments about others and seek to help them change when you have not considered your own impediments to seeing clearly. We are to deal with the plank in our eye first before we will be able to see clearly to help others see.
In Solomon's proverb, he guided people to prepare their outside work first before building their house. Preparing your field by planting and cultivating crops or building fences to protect valuable flocks and herds was a matter of survival. Neglect of outside work could result in a lack of food, mounting debts and the loss of income if sheep or cows wandered off. As comfortable and pleasant as having a house would be, tents served as a suitable habitation in the meantime while making fields fit for planting and harvest. To direct your energies and time towards building a house without food or resources for trading could mean bankruptcy and becoming a slave to others to pay off debts--and never have a habitable home.
I am reminded about what Jesus told His disciples concerning the importance of hearing His word and putting it into practice. Matthew 7:24-27 says, "Therefore whoever hears these sayings of
Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the
rock: 25 and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and
beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock. 26 But
everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a
foolish man who built his house on the sand: 27 and the rain descended,
the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And
great was its fall." Enthusiasm for building a house and seeing progress leads to ruin if the house is built without a foundation of concrete and steel. People can have many ambitions, passions and plans, but decisions that are not founded upon faith in Christ and obedience to Him will lead to a great fall. Once a house is built without a foundation it is very difficult to move it onto one, and praise the LORD what is impossible with men is possible by God's grace.