Our Good Father

The other night I came across the passage in 1 Timothy 3:4-5 (NIV) concerning requirements for overseers in church leadership:  "He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. ⁵ (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?)"  When I observe the interactions of children with their parents, the behaviour of the child demonstrates clearly if they have been made to obey their parents or if they have been permitted to disobey.  I remember a somewhat amusing situation years ago when it was very apparent a child was used to doing what he wanted, and because I was a guest in the home I received quite a show of consternation from a parent when he willfully disobeyed.  The behaviour of the child when I was present provided a strong indication of a lack of discipline from his parents when I was not present.  It is the duty of all parents--and especially those in church leadership--that they teach their children to obey them.

Paul made the point that if parents are not faithful to attend to their own house and the management of children God has made them stewards of, they are not suitable candidates for church leadership.  This aligns with a principle Jesus taught in Luke 16:10:  "He who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in much; and he who is unjust in what is least is unjust also in much."  Paul also said in 1 Corinthians 4:2 what servants and masters both knew, that it is required that stewards--those who were given a charge and responsibility by their superior--be proved faithful.  A servant who wasted his master's goods would be let go, but the one who was faithful to do a small thing well would be given additional responsibilities like Joseph who served Potiphar and Pharaoh.

The strong, inescapable implication is God is able to manage His own kingdom and family well, and He sees to it His children learn to obey Him.  We can make the mistake of wholesale blaming parents of disobedient and rebellious children, yet the Scripture is full of examples of God's people rebelling from their perfect heavenly Father.  We see the great lengths God went to in love of His people, how He guided them by His word, sent prophets to teach them, and disciplined them with trials to correct and restore them to Himself.  Like all good parents, God made clear His expectations of what He desired to see in His people and consequences should they disobey Him.  When they failed to meet His expectations and shirked their God-given directives, He addressed Israel like a landowner who discovered the vineyard he planted at great expense was not bearing any fruit.  From their own mouths and by their own deeds God judged them--coupled with divine love, mercy and compassion they refused to extend to those who were unprofitable like them.

In a parable Jesus told, He appealed to the understood order in society between a servant and master.  It was customary for the servants to serve their master first, and after he had eaten then they could eat.  Jesus said concerning the master in Luke 17:9-10, "Does he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I think not. ¹⁰ So likewise you, when you have done all those things which you are commanded, say, 'We are unprofitable servants. We have done what was our duty to do.'"  The context of the parable was in relation to disciples of Jesus forgiving those who sinned against them.  We should not expect to be thanked or commended by God when we forgive others, for that is our God-given duty to do.  If we lacked a gracious Father in heaven who loves, forgives and gives grace to us, it might be understandable for us to hold grudges or slander others.  God's expectations for His redeemed people is spelled out for us in Ephesians 4:31-32:  "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. ³² And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you."  When we obey and do what is right it is not because we are good children, but because we have a good Father in heaven.

Immoral Outrage

Have you ever experienced an indignant feeling when you saw people doing what you believe is wrong?  I remember one such occasion when I was incensed as it became apparent I was deceived and misled by someone I trusted to tell the truth.  I was later convicted because I took personal offence when it was in truth sin against God.  It was easy to justify my anger through what is called moral outrage, but since my heart was not humble and contrite before God it was actually immoral outrage.

There are passages in the Bible where the outrage people expressed was more an indicator sin within them brought to light by supposed offences.  A classic example is when Nathan the prophet came to king David and told him what turned out to be a parable about a rich man who had many sheep.  In the tale he callously stole the prized, only lamb of a poor man and killed it to provide a meal for his guests.  David was furious at this injustice, and immediately condemned the rich man to death for his theft and lack of pity, and commanded four-fold should be given to the poor man.  The prophet Nathan said, "You are the man!"  Then he laid out how David conducted himself like that rich man he condemned to death, for he had stolen Bathsheba as his own wife (when he already had many) and used the sword of the Ammonites to murder her husband Urijah.  God laid out the worst of David's crimes from which all others sprang in 2 Samuel 12:10:  "You have despised Me."  David's response was immoral outrage and hypocrisy, seeing he had not repented of his own sin against God.

When Jesus was in Bethany, the Gospel of John tells us Mary poured a pound of expensive, fragrant spikenard to anoint Jesus.  The Gospel of Matthew says the disciples were indignant at what they perceived to be a waste of the oil, for it could have been sold and the proceeds--which amounted to be around the average annual wage--could have been given to the poor.  John tells us it was Judas Iscariot who expressed this outrage, and it was not for the sake of the poor!  His greedy and sinful motives are laid bare in John 12:6:  "This he said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it."  Jesus rebuked His disciples and told them to leave Mary alone, for the good thing she had done in anointing Jesus for His burial would be spoken about as a memorial wherever the Gospel is preached.

It used to be when I saw people living in some sort of sin, I used to experience what I will call immoral outrage because I took personally the offence committed against God--as if I was the victim.  More and more by God's grace I am finding that feeling of indignation replaced by compassion, for in clinging to sin people close their arms to the almighty, awesome God who loves them and seeks a relationship with them.  In choosing a sinful lifestyle people reject God and His grace extended to them, for He has done everything to pay the price for their redemption, joy, peace and rest.  Jesus looked upon the multitudes with compassion and wept because they were like sheep without a shepherd, and when we are consumed by immoral outrage we are among those who have wandered from His side in self-righteousness and pride.  May the LORD continue to change us to be more like Him:  to love others and pray for those who do wrong as we are no better.

Principle of Projection

Jesus taught His disciples to observe what has been called the "Golden Rule," that as we should do unto others what we would have them do unto us (Matthew 7:8; Luke 6:31).  James said concerning the "royal law" in James 2:8-9, "If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself," you do well; ⁹ but if you show partiality, you commit sin, and are convicted by the law as transgressors."  From these passages a corollary can be drawn, that our tendency to show partiality to ourselves was a means to guide our conduct towards others.  Jesus calls us to a higher and better standard than that of Law, for He says we are to love one another as He loves us.

Paul explained in his letter to Roman believers that when we condemn others for doing wrong, we expose ourselves as being guilty of the same.  He wrote in Romans 2:1, "Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things."  The one who is very concerned about others cheating in a game is due to being a cheater himself.  Those who are suspicious of others being gossips and talebearers reveals their inclination to do the same.  King Ahab is a perfect example of one who projected his own sinfulness upon the righteous prophet what he was guilty of himself.

The Bible objectively reveals in 1 Kings 21:25-26, "But there was no one like Ahab who sold himself to do wickedness in the sight of the LORD, because Jezebel his wife stirred him up. ²⁶ And he behaved very abominably in following idols, according to all that the Amorites had done, whom the LORD had cast out before the children of Israel."  Yet hear what this wicked king said to the godly prophet Elijah in 1 Kings 18:17:  "Then it happened, when Ahab saw Elijah, that Ahab said to him, "Is that you, O troubler of Israel?"  1 Kings 21:20 also reveals, "So Ahab said to Elijah, "Have you found me, O my enemy?" And he answered, "I have found you, because you have sold yourself to do evil in the sight of the LORD..."  Ahab viewed Elijah as the "troubler of Israel" and "my enemy" when Ahab was the troubler of Israel and hostile towards Elijah and all God's prophets!

God told Israel of the corrupt condition of their rulers and corresponding action He would take to purge, refine and restore them in Isaiah 1:22-26:  "Your silver has become dross, your wine mixed with water. ²³ Your princes are rebellious, and companions of thieves; everyone loves bribes, and follows after rewards. They do not defend the fatherless, nor does the cause of the widow come before them. ²⁴ Therefore the Lord says, the LORD of hosts, the Mighty One of Israel, "Ah, I will rid Myself of My adversaries, and take vengeance on My enemies. ²⁵ I will turn My hand against you, and thoroughly purge away your dross, and take away all your alloy. ²⁶ I will restore your judges as at the first, and your counselors as at the beginning. Afterward you shall be called the city of righteousness, the faithful city."  Praise God He is able to set things right after people go very wrong.

Based on these observations, one takeaway for me is should I feel someone is a troublemaker and my enemy, I must examine my heart to ensure I am not a troubler, combative and adversarial towards them.  The LORD calls me to examine my own heart and walk wisely in love, to avoid showing partiality to myself, justifying my sin because others are sinners.  As we consider God's word and submit to His guidance, He purges the dross and sin from our own lives as we humble ourselves before Him and one another.  There was hope for the rebellious princes, thieves and corrupt judges in Israel by repentance and obedience to God who upholds the cause of the fatherless and widow--and in Christ there is hope of restoration and renewal for us as well.

Free To Do Good

"For you, brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another."

Galatians 5:13

As born again children of God by faith in Jesus, we have been called to liberty.  We have been freed from sin, the sinful demands of our flesh, fear of man, worry, death and the condemnation of the Law of Moses.  Paul compared the Law to a tutor that guided the Jews to please God until Jesus Christ came, and then the Law took them by the hand and handed them over to Jesus for Him to lead them individually and corporately who is greater than the Law.  Claiming to have "liberty" in our individualistic society is akin to saying, "I can do whatever I want."  This is not at all the posture Christians should adopt, for it vaunts self instead of submitting to God and one another in love.  Rather than using liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, through love Christians are called to serve one another.

Paul's caution against the misunderstanding and misuse of liberty shows it is possible to use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, to justify doing as we please because we feel entitled to do so.  Being raised in the United States, I cannot tell you how many times I heard people justify themselves by saying, "This is a free country."  My translation of that hackneyed phrase is, "I can say and do as I want because I can--regardless how it affects others."  As long as we live in a body of flesh in this world, we will be incorrigibly drawn to seek opportunity to please self rather than glorify God by serving one another in love.  The liberty Christ provides is not merely a liberty from law but liberty to love, forgive and serve others.  Prisoners released from prison can remain enslaved to sinful ways that landed them in prison in the first place, but our liberty is to be exercised as new creations through whom the life of Jesus is lived out daily.

Paul said in Galatians 5:14-18, "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." ¹⁵ But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another! ¹⁶ I say then: walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. ¹⁷ For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish. ¹⁸ But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law."  Our natural, fleshly appetite is to bite and devour one another, to lash out with words or actions that work to destroy people, reputations and relationships.  We are called to mortify these deeds of the flesh by the power of the Holy Spirit, and this is accomplished by following and obeying the Holy Spirit who guides us into all truth.  Those who try to control and force their flesh to submit by power of the flesh will ultimately fail, but all who walk in the Spirit shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.

The liberty we have been called to is not primarily focused on what we do or avoid doing but all God has called us to be.  By Jesus Christ the world was crucified to Paul and he was crucified unto the world: they were dead to one another by all Jesus mightily accomplished by His death and resurrection, having made Paul a new creation.  Adherence to the Law of Moses regarding whether a male was circumcised or not (which was a huge point of contention in the early church) had no power over people who were in Christ.  Jesus provided an example of serving one another in love when He took the place of a slave and washed the feet of His disciples before dying on the cross for their redemption.  Those who are born again and filled with the Holy Spirit will heed Paul's exhortation in Galatians 6:10:  "Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith."