God Corrects

The behaviour and choices of children are not always clear indicators of their parent's efforts or quality.  Because no one is perfect, there is not one perfect parent.  Despite our experience and apparent successes, we all have room to grow.  God is a perfect Father, yet the wanderings and rebellious nature of His children should not be attributed to His neglect or character flaws.  The fact I am not perfect and my children are not perfect do not provide license for apathy, but should encourage me to further imitate my Father's perfect example - despite my flaws and folly.

One consistent aspect of God's character is He chastens and disciplines those whom He loves, even as a father corrects a son in whom he delights.  God has given everyone a conscience, and a troubled conscience is a good indicator of something in our life which is not at peace with God.  I remembered recently how David's heart on multiple occasions "smote him" for something he did wrong.  He didn't feel conflicted or bad before he did something, but it was after the event that strong conviction came.  His heart smote him after he cut Saul's robe, and also after he numbered the people.  One instance was before his reign, and the second was towards the end.  Correction and an obedient response to conviction is something Christians need throughout our walks with Jesus.  A heart made sensitive through the Holy Spirit will experience this conviction.  It is not the feeling of remorse that matters, but our obedient response to God's correction which is key.

David was a man after God's own heart, but this was no guarantee David always followed God's example. Our conscience prompts us to consider our thoughts or actions, admit we have been wrong, and align ourselves in obedience with God in the future.  1 Kings 1:5-6 reveals the tragic consequence of the lack of correction on those we love:  "Then Adonijah the son of Haggith exalted himself, saying, "I will be king"; and he prepared for himself chariots and horsemen, and fifty men to run before him. ⁶ (And his father had not rebuked him at any time by saying, "Why have you done so?" He was also very good-looking. His mother had borne him after Absalom.)"  Adonijah was David's son, and he loved him very much.  The same self-exaltation seen in the usurping Absalom was evident in his younger brother, Adonijah.  The passage explained David never questioned or rebuked Adonijah in his whole life!  It was the proud heart of Adonijah which would lead to his destruction, for David's inaction did not force Adonijah to do such wickedness.  Would rebuke as a child have saved Adonijah as an adult?  Only God knows.

What we can know is God corrects His children.  His Word probes and searches our hearts and minds.  The Holy Spirit convicts of sin, righteousness, and judgment.  Jesus calls out to us, and bids all to love one another as He loves us.  We are more like Adonijah than we would like to think.  We justify ourselves with worldly opinions and selfish rationale, even as Adonijah gathered up an entourage to run before Him.  Unlike David, God makes it His business to ask us:  "Where are you?  What have you done?'  When Adam sinned by eating from the forbidden tree, after Cain killed his brother Abel, God spoke in this fashion.  He asked questions which zeroed in on motive.  Honestly answering the question "Why have you done so?" is one of the best practical ways to avoid future sin.  This way we do not make our focus with a particular behaviour itself, but the sinful motives of the heart which prompted the behaviour.  Sin hidden in our heart reveals itself in an infinite amount of ways, heads of a wicked hydra which will grow again.  For this reason we must examine our motives, repent, and lay our will down humbly before our God.

Proverbs 3:11-12 says, "My son, do not despise the chastening of the LORD, nor detest His correction; ¹² for whom the LORD loves He corrects, just as a father the son in whom he delights."  Have you heard God ask you lately, "Why have you done so?"  Don't ignore the question.  God does not correct us because He hates us, but out of His love, grace, and mercy.  Respond to His correction obediently.  Let us not be as Adonijah, who exalted himself.  Humble yourself before the LORD and He will lift you up!