Changed Heart and Mind

For a Christian feelings of guilt can provide motivation, but the love of God is a far better one.  People can "guilt" others to manipulate their behaviour yet scripture shows us this was never the way employed by Jesus.  Even after Peter denied Jesus He did not resort to attempts to manipulate his behaviour, for conviction of sin by the Holy Spirit lead to repentance and restoration.  A change of heart and mind is needed more than behaviour modification due to guilt.

A lot of believers can feel guilty because they have sinned by doing wrong or have fallen short of doing what was right.  There can be a persistent feeling we are not measuring up to a relative standard we have set for ourselves, usually by measuring ourselves by the arbitrary standards of personal experience or that of others.  Perhaps we have read a book or heard a sermon that invokes feelings of guilt over neglect of prayer.  Thus we think, "I haven't been praying enough.  I need to pray more."  Because this realisation has not resulted with intentional action, we can perpetually wallow in guilt rather than be moved by our feelings to repentance and right actions.

This whole mentality of needing to do good things "more" betrays a misunderstanding that we must measure up, and the implication is if we measure up by meeting our arbitrary standard we can avoid bad feelings of guilt.  Thus avoiding negative feelings becomes our selfish motivation instead of joyful obedience to Jesus.  Rather than saying, "I need to pray more" we would be better saying, "I need to pray" and actually do it.  The Bible never says we should pray more but to pray without ceasing and in everything give thanks (1 Thess. 5:17-18).  To say we need to pray more is like saying I want to be a "good Christian" when being a Christian is simply what matters.  Our actions flow out of who we are as born again children of God filled with the Holy Spirit, not from effort of the flesh to act like one.

There is what could be called a faux guilt around others to justify ourselves.  Some have said, "I haven't read the Bible much lately; I'm so bad."  Neglect is bad, and for those who believe this is true will make plan and conscious effort to avoid it.  It is ironic these sorts of statements are more an indication of pride than humility, for the proud make themselves a primary focus rather than God.  It is not that we are so bad, but God is so good that we look to Him and read His word with intention to obey.  With our minds instructed by God's word and our hearts surrendered to His will, we are greatly helped in time of present need.