It is amazing how good or bad memories can be triggered by our experiences. After our boys were grown I held an infant and was surprised how it suddenly took me back in time to when I used to carry them. Feeling that little life snuggled in my arms, it was like the whole world stopped and I rushed back to a happy place with fond memories. The smell of bacon being cooked in McDonald's produces a fleeting feeling of anxiety because of the stress I endured day after day at my first job. Double-cheeseburgers were on the menu that month and during that initial season I cooked up plenty of bacon. My experiences haven't ruined bacon or double-cheeseburgers for me, and for that I am grateful. :)
The reality is, everyone who is living will have positive and negative experiences. We will experience grief, loss, sorrow and regret; we will also rejoice in happy news, unexpected blessings, fun and friends. I have discovered the happiness of the good cannot negate the bad: having a perspective focused on the goodness of God and His love and grace towards all enables us to patiently endure. More than words can express I am grateful for the God who heals hearts, redeems lives and saves souls of those who trust in Him. It is not the hope of a better life or the trappings of success which lift us from depression and fear but the living hope available in Jesus Christ we receive by grace.
In many respects I have led a sheltered life. I grew up in a family where God's love was present and His grace experienced. Where a lot of my childhood memories are good, I am aware the memories others have might be predominately painful. When we have a pain in our leg or foot we limp as we attempt to avoid placing pressure on what hurts, and it is natural to avoid speaking about what has hurt us in the past. Some hurts never heal on their own. I heard a story yesterday of a boy who was dearly loved by his dying grandmother. She promised to give him a special ring as his inheritance to remember her. After she passed he asked his parents to give him the ring as she intended. His parents were unmoved: she was buried with the ring on her finger. She had died, but her mourning grandson had to live with his parent's decision that deeply wounded him.
Friends, these sorts of wounds do not simply heal over time. When our hearts have been broken like the shell of an egg it will never be the same--though we use much glue. Sometimes the damage done in this life can be permanent; physical loss can be catastrophic and total. Yet there is hope for all people, because there is hope of an abundant life now and a life beyond this world through faith in Jesus Christ. Isaiah 61:1-3 records words Jesus applied to Himself: "The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon Me, because the LORD has
anointed Me to preach good tidings to the
poor; He has sent Me to heal the
brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the
captives, and the opening of the prison to those
who are bound; 2 to proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, and the day of
vengeance of our God; to comfort all who
mourn, 3 to console those who mourn in Zion, to give
them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for
mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of
heaviness; that they may be called trees of
righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified."
To those bound in sin and guilt, to the brokenhearted and sorrowing Jesus came to comfort and console. Those who trust in Christ find freedom from crippling anxiety, anger and grief over our childhood, and strength to overcome depression. Having been born again by faith in Jesus, we receive beauty in exchange for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, and a garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. Our whole outlook can change for the better because we have been transformed by the power of God through the Gospel. Because we have a Saviour and glorious present and future we can recall the past without continuing to be crushed by it. With eyes of faith we can even begin to see God's hand present in our past to protect, provide and preserve us until now. Praise God He is a redeemer, healer and Restorer of broken hearts. In this broken world, in Jesus alone we have a living hope.