"Indeed heaven and the highest heavens belong to the LORD your God, also the earth
with all that is in it. 15 The
LORD delighted only in your
fathers, to love them; and He chose their descendants after them, you above all
peoples, as it is this day. 16 Therefore circumcise the foreskin of your heart, and be
stiff-necked no longer."
Deuteronomy 10:14-16
Many times in scripture God referred to the children of Israel as "stiff-necked." God was gracious to choose the Jews as His inheritance, honouring the covenant He made with Abraham. God did not choose them because they were the greatest, and they were not the most stubborn. Like all people they inherited the sin nature of Adam which leads to sin and death, and all people today share this in common.
When we say we have a "stiff neck," it is typically a reference to tightness in our physical neck. Being "stiff-necked" presented a picture to the Jews in ancient times we might not consider in modern western culture. A calf would be called "stiff-necked" when it was unaccustomed to and resisted being in a yoke. Calves must be broken before they are useful for work. When male calves are young they will be castrated and halter-trained to respond to verbal commands. The master gently trains the calf which will quickly grow to be a powerful ox. After learning the basics, the ox is fitted with a training yoke. At first the calf will strain and push against the yoke because it feels foreign to him. In time he will become accustomed to wearing the yoke and with training can work in tandem with another ox.
God brought the children of Israel out of Egypt and so birthed a nation whose God was the LORD. He led them gently with His physical presence, provided for their needs, spoke kindly to them, and protected them from harm. But they were stiff-necked, meaning they were not accustomed to His commands and refused His directives. God gave His people the Law through Moses and bid them to hearken to all He said. The generation God brought out of Egypt perished in the wilderness because they refused to hear and obey His commands. The potential of being "stiff-necked" did not die with that generation but has continued naturally in all people to this day.
This picture of the well-trained ox is beautifully presented through Christ's invitation to all people in Matthew 11:28-30: "Come to Me, all you who labour and
are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and
learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for
your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light." Satan and sin are cruel taskmasters before whom all people must yield and results in beatings and death, but Jesus Christ provides an alternative: He offers us a yoke where we discover rest and life at His side. His yoke is not a terrible burden but a joy for those redeemed through the Gospel. Before we can be Christ's yoke-fellow we must first be broken for our sin, repent, and be born again. As we are led by the still small voice of the Holy Spirit we are empowered to obey through Christ who strengthens us. In choosing Christ's yoke we discover a depth of love, belonging, and purpose we could not experience elsewhere.