Grief and Anger

Grief and anger sometimes go together.  This connection is seen in the life of Jesus.  One of the only recorded times Jesus was angry it stemmed from grief in Mark 3:5:  "And when He had looked around at them with anger, being grieved by the hardness of their hearts, He said to the man, "Stretch out your hand." And he stretched it out, and his hand was restored as whole as the other."  Jesus was grieved, but continued to love, heal, and do good.  Though Jesus was angry because of grief over the hardness of heart in His critical observers, He remained without sin.  Feelings of anger are not sinful in themselves, but as human beings in a body of flesh nearly every time our anger remains unchecked it leads to sin.

Ephesians 4:26-27 says, "Be angry, and do not sin": do not let the sun go down on your wrath, ²⁷ nor give place to the devil."  If we are angry for selfish reasons or if we justify our continued anger, we give opportunity for additional temptations to sin.  Grief can also tempt us to be angry with God, which I examined in greater detail in another post.  We live in a day where anger is expressed continually over all manner of things:  sports teams, red cups, perceived injustice, government legislation, or political candidates.  Anger can be an impetus to action, but without humility and submission to the leading of the Holy Spirit anger always causes infinitely greater harm than good.  During my life I have allowed grief over sin in others to fester into anger, and all it did was embitter and lead me into sin myself.  Had I examined and judged myself as severely as I judged others, my perspective would have been very different.  What used to make me mad and bluntly speak my mind now makes me sad and leads me to seek the LORD.  Knowing God remains in control in this crazy world enables grief over sin (mine and those flaunted by others) to not descend into anger fueled with pride - yes, pride.  Christians need to keep a careful watch for pride which lurks within all of us, for it has the ability to look so holy and justifiable in the heat of the battle - yet is everything but.

I am convinced there is currently no country which identifies as or is genuinely "Christian."  Even among Christians there are goats among the sheep and tares among the wheat!  The form of government in Australia is plainly "secular," though it does provide and protect the freedoms for people and groups of various beliefs.  One thing the left and an increasingly amount of those on the right cannot grasp is though I can accept the fact the world is secular, I must not accept what God calls sin into my life or agree with it as good or right.  I accept the rights of every person to exercise their God-given right to spit in His face and mock Him, but I will not cast my lot among them.  Christians ought not to be shocked or dismayed when we are hated, attacked, castigated, slandered, and marginalised.  Jesus was crucified for only doing what pleased the Father, and therefore we should not expect a world under Satan's sway to applaud our desire for God's glory.

Our battle is not against flesh and blood - governments, corporations, businesses, legislation, or people - but against the spiritual rulers of darkness which blind men to the truth.  Instead of becoming angry or using the world's methods to fight for our rights, how profitable it is to be casting our cares upon God.  No government advocacy group, no public relations team, no media outlet loves you or can help you like God can and will.  Vent on Facebook if you want or start a youtube channel, but those rants stir up wrath whilst the throne room of grace remains empty of those seeking an audience with the King of kings!  The wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God (James 1:20).  Can you see it?  While we are busy weighing in with our opinion, the Judge of All the earth is not sought for guidance.  We Christians are up in arms and sharing the latest viral videos, and could it be virtually no one is busy seeking the King of Glory?  Garnering support by men for our opinions is a dodgy foundation to be sure, but those who trust in the LORD Jesus Christ with all their heart and lean not on their own understanding find sure footing and clear direction for their steps.

Don't allow your grief to develop into bitterness and wrath towards others.  Vengeance is the LORD's, and He will repay.  In desiring to stand up for God, ensure you do not resist or oppose Him.  God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.  1 Peter 5:6-10 reads, "Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, ⁷ casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. ⁸ Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. ⁹ Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world. ¹⁰ But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you."