The Blessing of Irritation

Have you ever had something stuck in your eye?  As a kid I would always rub my eyes and they would grow red and irritated.  Over the years I learned how to remove eyelashes and other foreign bodies by flushing them out with water.  A stray eyelash is just one of many irritants life throws our way, like swarms of pesky flies or a pen which works intermittently.  Not only can we find physical problems irritating, but other people have a knack of doing just the thing we despise.  Have you ever wondered why things irritate us which don't bother others - and the fact they don't realise the awful things they do irritates us even more?

The Bible reveals amazing things about us we would never realise on our own, and perhaps don't even want to know.  One of them is found in Romans 2:1.  After writing a long list of sins common to all men, Paul wrote, "Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things."  The things we condemn in other people actually condemns ourselves, for it is genuine evidence we have made a practice of the same thing ourselves.  When we are irritated by the tone of someone's voice, that they sneakily cheat on their exams, or how they are such a hypocrite, we can condemn their behaviour and judge them as wrong.  But if we stop there, what will it profit us?  When others irritate us by behaviour we condemn as wrong, it should be a trigger for us to examine ourselves.  Condemnation in our heart towards others is evidence of our personal need to change.  Believing God's Word ask, "LORD, you have placed your finger on something in my own heart.  How do I do the exact same thing before you so I might confess my sin, repent, and be restored?"

Irritation in my life is one of God's surprise blessings.  God made our eyes to be irritated when there is a foreign body present which needs to be removed so clear, painless vision can be restored.  He also made our emotions to be easily stirred up and our attitudes bristle so we could address the sin which lies unseen in our hearts and minds.  In 2 Samuel 12:1-7, the prophet Nathan came to David and told him a story about a rich man who stole and ate the poor man's only lamb, David was furious:  "That man should die and restore the lamb fourfold because he showed no pity!"  Nathan said, "You are the man!"  David's anger was aroused by a man's petty sin in the story when he had just committed adultery, coveted, fornicated, conspired against Uriah, and murdered that honourable, innocent man in real life.  David's sin caused him to harshly judge others, and it is the same with us.  The speck we see in the eye of others is clear evidence of a stake in our own (Matthew 7:1-5).  If we will judge ourselves faithfully according to God's Word and humbly remove the stake from our own eye in repentance, then we will see clearly to help others with their own problems with a heart filled with meekness and love.  Irritation in us can lead to restoration to God and others if we will trust and obey Him!