Giving Up the Boot

Decades ago my wife and I had season tickets to watch professional baseball, and I have many fond memories of things we experienced.  We saw some historical baseball feats, like John Olerud hitting for the cycle, Ben Davis breaking up Curt Shilling's perfect game bid in the 8th inning with a bunt single, and Ricky Henderson tallying hit number 3,000.  I was impressed to witness a blind man easily navigate to his seat in the club level where we sat--without any assistance from an usher.  I was not very impressed when our car was keyed in the carpark, a deep scratch that adorned our Jeep Grand Cherokee from that night forward.  I also found it interesting how possessive people can be of their particular seat when there were more vacant seats than ones filled with fans.  Our area was pretty tame, but on the weekends things were a bit more lively.

I was reminded of a funny moment when in the middle of the game a leather work boot flew from behind and plunked a woman sitting near us.  The fact she was hit by the boot wasn't funny at all, but her response was.  She whipped around looking for the culprit and wrapped both her arms around it as if her life depended on it and shouted, "And you're not getting it back!"  The ushers were quickly able to spot the fellow who threw the boot, sheepishly holding a beer and walking around in one shoe.  People booed the guy as he was escorted from the game and sheepishly ambled away.  True to her word, the woman never relinquished the boot.

It was evident by her reaction and following discussion about the incident the woman had not been injured by the ordeal.  But the way she claimed the boot that hit her and refused to give it back always stuck with me.  It occurred to me that we can do the same thing with insults, names and hurtful words people may hurl at as.  We can gather them up and cling to them, refusing to part with what wounded us.  When King Saul threw a spear at David, he needed to decide if he would return it pointy-side first with speed.  We can do this with our words as well, responding to sharp or critical comments in kind.  The lady could have thrown the boot back at the man with the aim to teach him a lesson, but she wanted to render his remaining boot worthless for the trouble he caused.

How do you respond when you are offended or hurt by the words people say to you?  Do you return fire or do you hold on to them as infamous trophies?  Rather than laying such words to heart, we ought to consider the good things our LORD has said to us.  We are to cast our cares upon the LORD and choose to relinquish all the hurtful things said or done to us as a freewill offering to the LORD we will gladly never reclaim.  As sure as we have been impacted or hurt by words people have said to us, we are wise to acknowledge we can be guilty of doing the same.  May Psalm 141:3-4 be our prayer:  "Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips. ⁴ Do not incline my heart to any evil thing, to practice wicked works with men who work iniquity; and do not let me eat of their delicacies."  There may be an assortment of single boots that found their mark on us we've kept for some reason:  wouldn't it be good to finally be rid of them?