"And he who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death."
Exodus 21:17
I live in Australia, a nation where the death penalty has been abolished. 1967 marked the last time anyone was executed for a crime. There is no shortage of opinions or rationale concerning pros or cons of the death penalty. But whatever your opinion, I would be willing to wager the preceding verse seems a bit excessive to you. "C'mon," you might protest. "That is the most ridiculous thing ever, to face execution for any crime - much less for cursing your father or mother." In my culture, the suggestion mere words are a capital offense is beyond bizarre. This view only proves our need for God's Law. Otherwise we would never even imagine the scope of our sin, how heinous it is before a holy, righteous God, and our desperate need for grace.
Don't allow the subject matter to trip you up. My point in writing this is not to say we must implement the death penalty for the foul mouthed, but to show how our standards of righteousness and judgment is light years away from reality. The fact is, deep down we don't see sin as that bad. Proverbs 20:6 says, "Most men will proclaim each his own goodness, but who can find a faithful man?" Understand that the God who created the heavens and earth out of nothing with His voice is righteous, holy, and just. Every punishment according to His judgment is absolutely just. Being an imperfect man or woman, you likely don't agree. If God is righteous, holy, and just, if God's punishments always "fit the crime" (which they do), it is not God who has His wires crossed on this one: it is us. Man likes to play god on the basis of feelings or his own opinion, but man is no god at all. Either we are right and God is wrong, or God is right and we must bow the knee to His truth.
Since God is absolutely perfect in every way, this verse should be a stark warning of the grave danger of sin which appears innocuous. It is we who are unjust. It is not that God has a distorted view of justice, but we have a twisted view of sin. Sin is more evil, wretched, and terrible than any man ever imagined. This punishment is merely a foreshadowing of what the unrepentant sinner will face in the eternal flames of hell. To curse your father and mother was a verbal demonstration of an ungrateful heart which rejected God's established authority. Leviticus 20:9 affirms, "For everyone who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death. He has cursed his father or his mother. His blood shall be upon him." Hopefully these verses drive home the point of the horrible, destructive consequences of sin. These verses should shock and shake us to our core, how sin is worse than we ever imagined.
Praise the LORD that He is just. Yet He is also merciful and gracious, not willing that any should perish. He sent His son Jesus Christ to provide atonement for lost sinners with His own blood on the cross. Should God judge you against such a strong standard of holiness, how would you fare? No man could endure this judgment, for there is none good, no not one. If cursing the imperfect parents who helped bring you into the world is a capital offense, how severe will the penalty be for cursing and rejecting the God who breathed into you a living soul and sent His own Son to save you? To trample the precious blood of Jesus underfoot through unbelief is more than reckless. Rejecting and denying Christ has eternal consequences. May God open all the eyes of men to see their own wretchedness that we might seek refuge, forgiveness, and salvation in Jesus Christ! There is hope for you, even if you have cursed your parents or done worse still! Jesus said in John 5:24, "Most assuredly, I say to you, he who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life."